- Wash brinjals and make 2 slits to form a cross, leaving the stalks intact. Put the brinjals in water to avoid them turning black 
- Sprinkle some salt and set aside for 15 minutes 
- Meanwhile, in a wide pan add all the ingredients except cumin seeds and saute in low- medium flame for a minute 
- Furthermore add cumin seeds and dry roast till the mixture turns aromatic and slight change color 
- Transfer to a plate and let everything cool 
- After the mixture is cool add coconut, little water, and ground into a slightly coarse mixture 
- Discard the brinjal soaked water and place the brinjal on a plate 
- Add  ground stuffing to the brinjal and save the rest of the ground mixture 
- In a heavy-bottomed pan add oil and let  the oil turns  hot 
- Add mustard seeds, green chilli, and curry leaves and let them splutter 
- Add onion and saute for a minute 
- Furthermore add ginger garlic paste and site till the onions turn translucent 
- Add stuffer brinjal, turmeric powder, chilli powder, sesame oil, and give a good mix 
- Cover and cook brinjal for 3-4 minutes till brinjal skin shrinks and turn brown, saute in between 
- Add tamarind extract, remaining ground mixture, mixie water required salt, and mix everything 
- Cover and cook for 20 minutes in low- medium flame, mix well in between 
- Add jaggery, mix well and cover and cook for 10 minutes, mix well in between